So my younger sister calls this morning to apologize. Her words were: “I’m sorry for all those things I said to you — they were totally uncalled for. And oh by the way, if you see my day planner can you let me know so I can come pick it up.” Whatever!!!!!
I should say that much of our problems stem from the fact that I’m incapable of : “giving her enough praise or affirmation.” This is a typical weakness of a ISTJ. Our relationship is particularly complicated because my younger sister sometimes wants me to be just a big sister and other times a parent figure. It’s confusing. What’s a girl to do? For now, I’m just going give it more time. I can’t deal! I’ve got my own issues to work through.