Speaking of lovers, I’ve been thinking that it might be good to have a real man about to distract me from all the terrorist drama. Having said that, I’m not sure I’m ready for a relationship, at least not a serious one anyway. Not now. I just want to have a bit of fun. No, that is not code speak for wanting no strings sex, I would really like to meet someone new – I just don’t want to get too serious too fast. So if I move forward, I’m going to remember to cast the net wider and not discount people so easily. Also, go slower and not commit so quickly. Also pay closer attention to what is left unsaid. Furthermore, regardless of what the person says, remember that their actions speak loudest. So if they say one thing and do another, do not discount. Also if they say something is X when it is clearly Y, do not discount. Finally, do not settle or compromise on values. So with that, anyone out there want to write my new and improved match.com personal ad? I’m curious as to how others would describe me.