Just found out that my best guy friend’s girlfriend is moving in with him. Found out while reading her livejournal. I’m extremely happy for him, as I actually like the girlfriend. But kind of annoyed that he didn’t even consult me. Perhaps he didn’t because he thought I might have tried to talk him out of it. Whatever his reason, I feel slighted. I tell him everything, he holds back. Sometimes, I wonder about our friendship. He use to be my best friend but has since been demoted (it’s our little joke!) to just my best guy friend. I wonder where on his list of friends I rank. Something tells me, I’m not near the top anymore. Hmm, maybe it’s just the natural evolution of things….
Update (3:37pm) Finally caught up with him. They’re both in Las Vegas. We talked. We laughed. Everything is ok. I don’t feel slighted anymore. So instead of making this about my need to be in the know, wishing the happy couple the best of luck. For the first time, I think my best guy friend has met someone who he is totally compatible with and that makes me happy.