I recently saw Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind on DVD and for a minute, wished that there really was technology to erase from my memory my failing relationships with Racquetball Guy. After that minute passed, I went back to thinking that it was better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I am optimistic that my memories of this relationships and others prior will make me a great spouse someday and for that I am eternally grateful. But there are days when I just want to erase it all. I was in that zone again today after seeing the romantic comedy Hitch. I did enjoy watching the movie and even laughed out loud several times, but after it ended I was overcome with emotions and had to work hard to fight back the tears. So I was wishing again for the eraser technology to be real. I feel like I have reflected enough and want to be done with these feelings. I think (I know) it’s time to move on.