Archive for the Dating Category

From Breadcrumbs to Toast

I have not heard from Basherter since I laid into him in March. Perhaps he finally understands my position — when I’m done, I done. I had told this to him before we stopped speaking, but I suppose he never thought it would apply to him. After […]

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This past Wednesday was the 21st anniversary of my mother’s death. I know people say that it gets easier as the years go on, but for me it hasn’t– perhaps because our family unit hasn’t really recovered. To be exact, I am not on speaking terms with […]

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Come a Little Closer

For the last few months I can’t get Rihanna’s song Stay (feat. Mikky Ekko) out of head. Strangely, I’m not thinking about a particular guy when I hear this song. It’s more to do with the general desire to be in a committed relationship. I know this […]

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Yet another Valentine’s Day finds me single and I’m really starting to question my decision to remain in London. The weather is less than glorious, it’s rather expensive so I can’t afford to live in my desired area Notting Hill and I’m eternally single. Granted I’m not […]

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Turning Tables

Saying goodbye to Basherter took incredible strength and there are days when I just want to cave and reach out to him and take it all back. You know, be friends with him on his terms. But I stand firm because really, what has he got to […]

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