Endings

I had a realization about myself the other day. I am not very good at ending romantic relationships. In fact, I have never ended a romantic relationship. Sure I’ve chosen not to go on second dates, but once a proper relationship begins, I’ve never ended things. It’s always been the other person. Or in the case with Racquetball Guy, neither of us said the relationship was over, we just let it fizzle out. Overall, thinking that wasn’t a good thing as my self esteem greatly suffered towards the end. Thus moving forward, I’m going to have to be more assertive in this area. Enough with the internal dialogue. Needs have to be met and if they’ve been communicated and are still not being met, then its best to just move on.

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