To Forward or Not Forward My Blog Link

So things are progressing with Racquetball Guy. We’ve talked a number of times since last Friday and have plans for a second date on Saturday. So keeping my fingers crossed that things go well. Either way, thinking it may be time to tell him about my blog. I haven’t yet as I wanted to tell him about myself versus having him learn about me from my archives. But I might have to forward the link soon. Seeing that blogging has become an integral part of my daily routine, I don’t want to remain silent about it for much longer. Truth be told, I’m sort of surprised he hasn’t found it. Lord knows I googled his name as soon as he told me it in full. Maybe I’ll forward after Saturday if things go well. Then again, maybe I’ll just wait a few more weeks.

8 Comments
  1. Do you know for certain he doesn’t know about your blog? He could just not be saying anything? I dunno.
    Well, if he doesn’t know, he’ll probably find out sooner or later, so might as well be the first to tell him.

  2. OOOOOOO. I’m not you but if I was, I wouldn’t just yet. I’d let him develop a clear understanding of who you are… then drop the bomb, er, blog.

  3. I agree with E – I’d wait until he gets to really know you better. If you never speak to him again he might still come by and troll around. Ick.

  4. I’m with the rest of the pack here…I would wait a little while longer before giving out the blog link.
    You haven’t even gone on your second date yet…give him time to find out things about you, keeps it interesting.

  5. Serenity said. You haven’t even gone on a 2nd date yet.
    Personally, I don’t see the rush people, especially women, have to tell their dates about their blog. I think it’s unnecessary. If it develops into something that may turn into a relationship, then go for it.
    In your case it is a little dif since you use your name…full name, ursula petula barzey.. but I still wouldn’t tell him. If he’s found it and hasn’t said anything, well that’s a little telling about him now isn’t it.

  6. I’m absolutely sure he doesn’t know about. He’s not the type to hold back, so if he did know, I’m sure he would have said something. With that said, I think I’ll wait a few weeks. If he finds out before then, I’ll just say that I wanted him to find out about me from me, not via my website.

  7. DON’T DO IT!

  8. I would strongly recommend against it.

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